The love thing.! ;-)

          The most interesting topic of all time. Some of us might have experienced the feeling, while some are still waiting for it to happen. All the best to them. All I can say to everyone that it is worth experiencing once.

          We live in a weird society. First they tell us to love everyone, and when we love someone, they oppose! I am still searching the reason behind it. Over the casts, religion, states, country love is the bond that connects the entire world. Then why to oppose it, y it isn’t still acceptable in our society. Love marriages are still unacceptable for some people. For some parents, fore the society!

          To all the parents who are against it, with all due respect. I personally think that your duty is to ‘guide’ your child, not to ‘Decide’ for your child. You should make sure that you have given him proper guidance, but the ultimate decision should be taken by the individual. From your experience you should teach him/her that what is right or what is wrong.  But if your child is adult then he/she has ability to decide that what is right or wrong for him/her or who is good for them. For the stupid cast and religion reasons its utter foolishness to restrict them. Love doesn’t see all that, all it sees is a heart which they love, for which they care, with which they want to spend the time.

          It is okay if they make mistakes. At least they won’t blame you for what so ever happened in their life. They will learn only by that. But if you will restrict them, the feeling of hate towards you will always be in their mind. Let them do what they want to do in their life unless it’s wrong. They should be given the right to choose their partner. It’s their life after all. You can’t force them to live life your way! It is up to them what they want to be, with whom they want to be.

          There are gardens for kids, for old people. Has government made any place for them? No. If you are saying that youth is the power, then you also have to support youth for their thinking. U will just keep you old mentality and think that youth should make a change. That’s not possible.

          Honour killing. One of the worst problems of current time. Is love a crime? Then why to oppose it! Just for the sake of foolish society thinking some people are ready to kill even their kids! If two people are happy together, leave them along. What they do is none of your business. It’s their life, let them live it their way. Stop interrupting your nose in their life. And to all the couples, stop thinking about others. If you like someone then fight for it, fight for you love. People have always something to say. And a humble request to all the elder people. Start to respect love, because it is the bond which connects the whole humanity. 

Some of my favourite lines at the end… 

           ये इश्क नहीं आसां..
           बस इतना समज लीजिये के आग का दरिया है और डूब के जाना है...!!
           - ग़ालिब