Friendship Is the Best Bond

          Any type of feeling is the purest emotion of the human being. And feelings create the best relation in the life. All the relations in life are worthy, with the parents, with your partner or with anyone through your existence in the whole world. When you find someone totally like you, just when you think that you are not alone with the all the weirdness, then the bond of friendship is started between two souls.

          The bond of friendship is above from all the grounds of distance or time. And friends are the only persons with whom you can share all the feelings. They have the key to the safe of your heart; they can reach to the very depth of your heart and to the deepest secrets of your heart. While sharing any of the things with them you don't need to worry for the secrecy of them, they are just transferred from one safe place to another safe place.

         A friend is the person who is always there for you throughout your entire life, through all the troubles, all the happiness and the struggle. From the childhood to the old age of yours and in all the emotions of love, hate, anger, sad, sorrow and many more. Friendship is the bond which is indescribable. All the words and all the alphabets of any language are not enough for to describe it. Just remember that you are with your friend when you don't have to care about your looks, your apparel or you have to think before saying something.

          The best moments of your life are mostly with your friends, and even in any relationship if you act like best friends, you will have the best relationship. Best friends are one of the parts of life which are irreplaceable. Our adults always suggest to us not to talk with strangers, but the fact is that all our friends were once complete strangers.

          Friendship is the thing which is with you from the starting of your life, form the childhood, the teenage, the adult life, in the old age and at the time of your death. If you want to count the possessions in your life, count the friends, not the money or any physical existing thing. If you have enough friends you can trust with any matter any who will give a shoulder through the rough patch of your life, you are the richest person in the world.

Hope

Hope is the only thing which is constant in this world. A thing which is running human lives on the emotional track. Constantly hoping, for the love, for the friends, for the job, for money or anything, thinking it will happen someday.

Hope is the thing which keeps us going. We know that some things doesn’t belong to us and will never be, but hope keeps us attached with them. And personally, hope is the bond that keeps us connected, two persons, two friends or anything you love in your life.

Too much hope creates problems too, at some point you should also know that you live in the real world, and reality is what you have to ultimately face. But sometimes, spending a bit time for your fantasy world is also essential for being happy. Hope allows you to have all the living and non-living things which you can only have in your dreams.

Miles away from the reality a different world exists, a world of your own creativity, your own friends, your love, people of your choice, where happiness lies everywhere and smile is the only thing on your face. The real world and the virtual world is connected by only thing which is Hope. Somewhere between these two worlds there is one place where our being is.

P.S. – In every situation our heart is divided into two parts. One part always knows the reality and knows that it will never happen whereas the other part always hope for it to happen.

The things which really matters!

Just running in an unknown direction to get the thing even you don’t know, wishing to get every existing thing in the world, to get all the money, all the popularity and all the attention of the world while leaving behind all the emotional attachments with the real living things aka humans. In the race and competition of life we almost forget what is important for us, what gives us happiness, what makes us sad, what we deserve, what we truly want and what do we really crave for.

In life we almost forget the little details which really matters for us, a smile of pride on your parents face because of you, an evening spent with a friend, a walk with your loved one, a holiday spent with your children, a cute fight with your siblings and many more countless little moments. Far away from your home, in the crowd of strangers when you feel lonely, these are the moments which create a beautiful curve on the face known as smile.

In current times, we use the humans which are meant to be loved and love the things which are meant to be used. In every school there are lessons for science, history or etc. Teach them how to live life, what are the things which really matter, how to be happy and how to make others happy! Teach them how to love humans instead of things. Because while winning the race of success, there are so many precious possessions which you knowingly or unknowingly leave behind. Learn to value the love, care, affection, feelings and warmth of people around you. Chetan Bhagat has rightly said, “No one will remember how your power point was in the office on the day of your death, but what they will remember is how you made them feel during your entire life”.

P.S. – In the world, mostly all people want to be rich, famous, wealthy or well-known. Well, I just want to be HAPPY.

It’s the journey that matters the most, than the Destination

I know so many people will not agree with me on this post but according to me, the title stands correct. Most of you will think that the destination is more important. But remember that at the start of every adventure or project in life you always know the destination that where you want to reach. But it’s always the journey that adds the excitement. It’s the journey that gives you the experience, the thrill, the determination and the will to reach to the destination.

I totally accept that the feeling to reach to the destination is best. But at the end everyone tells the story about the struggle not the success. In life struggle is more important, if you are willing to fight with the situations then the success will be yours, might not be today or tomorrow, but definitely someday. Most of the contestants quit the game of life in the route of struggle. And salute to all the ones who pass it, with all the wounds, with all the disappointments and all the hates from the world.

Remember any picnic you had with your friends. I bet the most memorable moments would be of the journey, you might not remember where you were going to. But you surely remember all the crazy time you had with your buddies. In the journey of life you will meet many people who will cross your path, some will love you, and some will hate you. You will love someone and may be hate someone. Remember that nothing lasts forever, every story has its end, every book. Every chapter and every sentence is meant to be ended sooner or later, either happy or sad ending. Time has never stopped for anyone nor will it in future. So better you keep walking towards your goal, your purpose and your destination. I have utter respect for all those who work hard on their goal no matter is the situation is.

P.S.- The best feeling in the world is to do what others say you can’t. 

The amazing age – Teenage

It’s the age when you start to explore things about life and yourself. It’s the first step towards maturity, your carrier, first love and so many other things. It’s the age when start to feel about things, the feelings comes into the business and your heart conquers your being over your mind.

The group of friends comes into existence, some last years of school life, the excitement about college, someone becomes important in your life, first crush and for some lucky fellows a girlfriend/boyfriend may be! Starting of bunking the classes, friends become more important, sometimes silly fight with parents over a useless topic. Finding the best friend and sharing all the little details, staring at your crush and the first blush, all the little worth living moments.

Your sleeping hours suddenly increase, you start visiting CCDs, Baristas and all the cafeterias, the first thought about your career and the feeling of changing the world, hanging around with friends, watching movies like crazy, the first love, the first heartbreak and the first relationship. 

Teenage is just the wonderful sum of all the countless mesmerizing little moments. I know there is still a lot but writing about all of them will make this article of infinite length. For those who have lived it, I hope reading this brings a smile on your face and to all the ones who are currently living it, guys and girls live it to the fullest.  

    

P.S. – From the day you start looking at the mirror and think about how you look, get that my friend. The teenage has started. ;)

World Through My Eyes!

In life, keeping the mind aside..
And listening to your heart every time...

Having a bit attitude, also being polite..
And making silly mistakes sometimes..

Being happy all day, sometimes a silent cry..

With the close ones, spending quality time..

Falling in love with someone..

Saying that person, you are mine..

Doing something for someone once in a while..

Occasionally an old friend with a bottle of wine..

Keeping the past behind, lets take a rise..

Come, lets see world through my eyes..!! :)

                                                                                                         - Kishan Sarvaiya

P.S. : Hoping to see you again.. :)

Be Yourself!

It’s meaningless to say that you haven’t seen anyone having dual personality. The one is to show the world which is probably fake one and other is the actual one. In most of the cases they are like two poles of magnet. Totally different, I still can’t understand the reason behind it.

If you are something, then be it. Don’t be afraid to show yourself to the world. If they don’t like you, then it’s their problem. Not yours. You have to hide yourself only if you did something wrong. And even u did something wrong, so what?! Who doesn’t make mistake? We are not born perfect that everything comes in our way will be done perfectly. It’s okay to make mistakes sometimes. Take some good time before judging someone, at first look you might not like them, give it another chance. Maybe you end up liking them.

Never judge someone by their habits. Their habits may affect their behaviour, but certainly not his being. Habits might be bad, but the soul inside the body might be pure. A person can’t be anyone no matter how hard he/she tries, so better if you stop pretend to be someone else. You might face some trouble if you show truly what you are to the world, but at the end, if you are good, they have to accept you.

Being yourself is the best gift you can give to the world. Showing your true image and your real personality, you will get the best output from you. Don’t be judgemental at all; everyone has the right to prove their selves. So take the chances life gives you, never be afraid to show yourself to the world. Keep faith in yourself. Be original, be yourself.

P.S. - The ones who say “You can’t” and “you won’t” are probably the ones afraid that someday “You will”.

Dedicted to . . . . . . ;)

Sorry for the times I have hurt you,

That wasn’t real me, that wasn’t for you,

It’s the moments with you which I always cherish,

It’s only you what I need, yes I am childish,

Your glance makes me skip my heartbeat,

With your memories, in winter I can feel the heat,

Making you mine is all that I am willing,

When I see you, I have that beautiful feeling,

When you are by my side, there’s no fear,

All I want is to stay in your heart forever,

All the things are true which I said above,

And Yup baby, you are my life’s love. :)

-Kishan sarvaiya                          

Hostel (Yeah.. It’s Heaven)

At the end you have lived a wonderful life if you have ever spent some of the years of your life in the hostel (Especially boys hostel). You can’t argue with that they were some of the best years of your life. Remembering all the crazy things, all the madness and all the other silly stuff you did which never made sense to the normal people make you smile often.

Coming as a fresher, a bit nervous in starting, worrying about all the things, may be feeling home sick. And after some months.. Bam! It’s your home. No worries, no tension, caring, sharing, friendship, love, heartbreaks, fun, night outs, lan gaming, sleeping, nights before exam, result days, parties and the best one, Birthdays!

Birthdays are the best part. The clock hits 12 o’clock and the show begins. It seems fun for all the other guys but not for the birthday boy. The birthday bumps, ooucch! They indeed hurt, and sometimes it’s even sometimes hard to sleep on your birthday night. Talking about my hostel we hold a proud record about cake. Till date we are not able to cut the cake sincerely. There’s always a madass who has to ruin the plan, sometimes it’s me. Showing our love to him by giving him a cake bath, some eggs, dirty water and what not! But these are the moments which you will remember in future, not the assignments you did during your college life.

Seriously suggesting you that even in future, never buy a house or a flat near a boys hostel. The constant flow of #$@*^%$# never stops. The loud music, continues noise, crazy stuff which you might not like to witness! Wasting all the day doing nothing and at the end reading like crazy on the night before exam. Sleeping is also one of the finest things of the hostel life. U sleep, sleep and sleep again. You tend to develop a perfect relationship with your bed. No promises, no commitment and u both can sleep together whenever u want.  There are even certain things which I can’t write here… Haha to that.

No matter what you say, but in the end you are gonna miss these days. So for those who are currently living in the heaven, enjoy it as much as you can. And to all the other fellas, I know you are smiling remembering your days. I strongly recommend it as one of the things to do before die.!