The love thing.! ;-)

          The most interesting topic of all time. Some of us might have experienced the feeling, while some are still waiting for it to happen. All the best to them. All I can say to everyone that it is worth experiencing once.

          We live in a weird society. First they tell us to love everyone, and when we love someone, they oppose! I am still searching the reason behind it. Over the casts, religion, states, country love is the bond that connects the entire world. Then why to oppose it, y it isn’t still acceptable in our society. Love marriages are still unacceptable for some people. For some parents, fore the society!

          To all the parents who are against it, with all due respect. I personally think that your duty is to ‘guide’ your child, not to ‘Decide’ for your child. You should make sure that you have given him proper guidance, but the ultimate decision should be taken by the individual. From your experience you should teach him/her that what is right or what is wrong.  But if your child is adult then he/she has ability to decide that what is right or wrong for him/her or who is good for them. For the stupid cast and religion reasons its utter foolishness to restrict them. Love doesn’t see all that, all it sees is a heart which they love, for which they care, with which they want to spend the time.

          It is okay if they make mistakes. At least they won’t blame you for what so ever happened in their life. They will learn only by that. But if you will restrict them, the feeling of hate towards you will always be in their mind. Let them do what they want to do in their life unless it’s wrong. They should be given the right to choose their partner. It’s their life after all. You can’t force them to live life your way! It is up to them what they want to be, with whom they want to be.

          There are gardens for kids, for old people. Has government made any place for them? No. If you are saying that youth is the power, then you also have to support youth for their thinking. U will just keep you old mentality and think that youth should make a change. That’s not possible.

          Honour killing. One of the worst problems of current time. Is love a crime? Then why to oppose it! Just for the sake of foolish society thinking some people are ready to kill even their kids! If two people are happy together, leave them along. What they do is none of your business. It’s their life, let them live it their way. Stop interrupting your nose in their life. And to all the couples, stop thinking about others. If you like someone then fight for it, fight for you love. People have always something to say. And a humble request to all the elder people. Start to respect love, because it is the bond which connects the whole humanity. 

Some of my favourite lines at the end… 

           ये इश्क नहीं आसां..
           बस इतना समज लीजिये के आग का दरिया है और डूब के जाना है...!!
           - ग़ालिब

About Moments we always Cherish…..

                     “The more you sit alone, the more you sit with the past!” Sometime just try to sit alone in a dark room. You will get to know which person is important in your life. Might be he/she would be no longer with you at that time. But you will know that whose footprints are on your heart, there might be some dust of time on it, but some scratches will always be there, Even if the wounds are healed by time.

                     Everyone says time is the best healer, and you gotta keep trust on that statement. Try the above sitting in the dark thing, you will feel good. Never complain to god if you have not got your love or your happiness or why he has taken it back. But instead of that thank him for giving you some moments which you will always cherish. Never run away from your past or your memories, the more you run away, the more it will chase you and hunt you down. Better you let it flow in the river of your mind. Past is one thing which you cannot change, no matter how hard you try.

                     All you have to do with your past is to learn from it. Use your experience to build a better future, A better world for you and a better world for everyone. Forget all the wrongs things you have done, forget all the wrong people you have trusted, forget all the friends who were not by your side when you needed them most, forget the special one who left you. It’s all about moving on. I personally think fastrack has the best slogan ever, ”Move On”. We are humans after all, It’s okay to make mistakes sometimes.

                    Make your future that good that when it becomes past, it’s worth remembering. It’s up to you after all, how you give shape to your life, to your future and to your past too. Memories are like water of river, it will keep flowing, you can’t stop it. But it will be easy for you if you will swim in the direction of the flow then going against it. All you can do is let it be how it comes to your mind, with bitterness or sweetness. Enjoy your present, but surely make your past your friend. All the best  ;)   

Its complicated!

                                     

           Life, Just a 4 letter word which can't be sum up by other thousands of word. And one should not even try to understand it. Because when you think that you have sort it out, It happily screws you again. It will have everything, ups and downs. You just have to go with the flow.


           Heartbreaks are gonna happen, Some people will eventually leave you, Maybe at the time when you need them most, You will fail at things. You can't ignore. Because everything is not in our hands. But first we have to make sure that we have tried our best. I personally thinks that God somehow controls our lives. And I'm pretty sure that he will take better care of us than we can ever do. Keep trust on him. Shit happens in life. All you have to do is flush it out and move on.


             Moving on. Easy to say, extremely hard to do. It is easy to say these two words when we are giving them as advice to someone. But it is hard to imply when we are in that situation. Maybe keeping your heart strong will help during this. Thing will happen, might not in my favour is the thing which everyone should learn. Sometimes you have to keep your heart outside of your business.

            Try to give your best, Expect less is the formula for being happy. It is always the expectation which ruins the relation. If you will not expect, then you will get happy with anything which your friend do for you!  So better you keep the spirit to live the life with happiness. Life will keep running, weather you will enjoy it or you regret for it. So better you enjoy it. Keeping this in simple words, someone has nicely said that ‘Life is like an ice cream, it will melt. You enjoy it or not!’

Life: It Goes On, Better if you learn to live with it. :)