Expectations: That's where the problem is!

It's the starting, you expect, you get disappointed, you become sad, and think what's wrong. That's not how it should work. Satisfaction is the key here, if you don't expect much from someone you will be happy for even the little things they do for you. We always set out standards high, and as someone fails to achieve it, the problem starts.

You need to believe that everything doesn't work the way you want it to be, everyone don't do things the way you like them to be, they have got their own thought process, and obviously they will follow it. It's said that a satisfied person is a happy person, always be satisfied with what you have got, the desire of achieving more should be there, but it doesn't mean that you don't value the things you have got at present.

In every relationship, we expect certain things from the other person, and if they don't do it, we automatically assume that something is wrong with us or them. If they don't do things your way, it doesn't mean that they don't love you or you don't matter for them. Everyone has got their own way of showing affection, love and care, and they might not match with your expectation. You need to think from other's prospective too and you will realize that you have been wrong.

From childhood we have been taught that if you do some thing for someone, they should return the favor in this way and in that way our mind always thinks. So we expect certain things and we get disappointed. Try at least once, don't expect anything from anyone and if they do a tiny thing, you will be happy like anything and that too for you and your relationship either it is friendship or any other relationship. Low expectations is the key for a happy life.

P.S. - What ruins everything is the image or expectation about something that how it is supposed to be!

Arvind Kejriwal: The man with the will

Once in a while there comes a person who changes the scenario of India in such a way that new history is created. Jayprakash Narayan was one and i think this man has the capability to do things, things in different way, the one who can put his country ahead of himself, the one who can understand the problems of common man rather than just saying that he feels them.

All started with the Jan Lokpal movement, he came in the limelight, people were thinking that if he was the brain behind all this, then again the second movement, then his own fast, and a simple challenge by Mr. Salman Khrushid, that if you want to fight, then join politics, come in the parliament and then fight! Well. ideally you should not challenge an engineer, and if you do so, then be ready for the consequences. Next morning the announcement was made that he and his group are forming a political party, " Aam Aadmi Party". 

Some members of team Anna were against the decision of forming a political party and media was also criticizing the decision, but that was the best done at that time, some also called him opportunist. But the one who has a will, will find a way. Going through all the challenges and hardships, the controversies he was going strong. The election arrived and he choose to challenge the 15yrs old candidate, the Chief Minister and the again his dicision was questioned, but he was determined. She asked once in an interview 'Kejriwal Who?', well, the results showed that who is Kejriwal! This morning he announced his decision of forming the government. 

The public wanted a change, were fed up from this mud of corruption, poverty and what not! They saw a ray of hope and surprisingly results of election were a huge surprise. They didn't got clear lead but the trust was there from the public. Congress is giving the conditional support(Well, there looks something fishy), but then the intention is clear, the will is pure and the determination is strong. Surely there are some faults too but comparing to all other competitors, they are way ahead in the line and surely a considerable option in upcoming Loksabha elections.

P.S. : First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight against you and then you win!(And they might join you- Congress)